Boiling Water

Sorry I have been gone for awhile. I needed a break. I have lots of triggers coming up, anxiety yet again but this post will be more so of a “rant”.

I am so sick and tired of holding everything in. I wish I could just let it all out. I don’t understand why just because she refuses to see how it is her fault or mentally ill that she can’t own up to all the crap she has put me through. I found out some new information that has brought up this rage from inside of me. I spoke about my attack in the Tree’s Secret blog and found out that all these years she has blamed me for what happened. I was only 10 years old! I don’t put it past her now that I know how she is but I am done showing compassion for right now. I want her to answer to all the crap she put me through.

I am so angry even now just typing about it. Why do I have to suffer in silence? Why do I have to not say anything and turn the other cheek? I have never said one ill word to her in years and it is taking a toll.

Now there is another situation at hand, not with her but with someone else. This woman has a tender heart, sweet nature but is always around. I am a newly wed without having the pleasure of living with just my husband. I am sick and tired of sharing him, not having any privacy, daily interruptions and disruptions. I know they are so sweet, have provided so much for us and we are forever grateful to them…. It has been years that this has been going on and I am starting to get fed up. I have never spoken on this subject ever.

I do not have the heart to. I don’t want to come across as attacking but her thinking pattern is so different than mine- she forces it to be her way. I do not understand why subtle changes bother me so much. Just yesterday a subtle change was made and that made me fly off the handle (in private of course).

I do not like confrontation but yet I create so much of it within my self. I strongly wanted to cut yesterday. I know I need help, I know I am mentally unstable at times of extreme stress or triggers. I go to my therapist today and I am going to see if she can teach me some tools to calm myself down.

I guess overall I just feel like I cannot communicate how I feel to the people I need to, so as a result I stuff it down inside. I am so tired of stuffing. I want to be a happy, easy going, roll with the punches type of person but I am going through so much right now- I don’t see a way out besides self harm. The nightmares are continuing at times, the triggers are worse and I want things to be different.